The 10 most gay-friendly cities in Italy: which ones are and why

It is well known that Italy is one of the most famous countries in the world for its hearty hospitality; a country of travelers, traders, scholars and globetrotters since its origins, a crossroads of peoples and tourists of all kinds, which is used to and well pleased in hosting those who wish to know its wonders. Empowered by this mindset, despite the unspoken hostility of a certain political class and those who retain a more “traditionalist” outlook on life, Italy has been a widely regarded rainbow tourism destination in Europe for about a couple of centuries, where members of the LGBTQI+ community can feel represented and welcome and find contexts in which to have fun, enrich themselves and socialize.

In this article we present what we think are the 10 most gay friendly cities in Italy, where you can add a little more glitter to your trip to the Bel Paese.

Earlier we talked about Taormina as a destination for gay tourism in the late nineteenth century. To this day, Taormina's beaches remain among the most popular, but Catania has risen to claim the top spot in Sicily as the most LGBTQI+ destination.

Catania ferments a dynamic community that roams basically everywhere, from the sea to the suburbs. Its Gay Street is just a short walk from Piazza Università, among the venues that line the Alessi steps.

In Catania there are also many associations that fight for the rights of the LGBTQI+ community. In addition to Arcigay Catania, which often hosts events and activities at its headquarters in Via Sant'Elena, there are also other lesser-known ones with a rich calendar of meetings and activities. These include Queer as Unict, a university association aimed at raising awareness about gender differences and countering stereotypes.

Also, for the past 20 years, between late June and early July, the city gets flooded with the rainbow colors with a series of initiatives that end in the traditional parade.

Among the most gay friendly cities in Italy historically speaking, you cannot miss Florence.

It was for many centuries considered the “perfect” city for homosexual life, in part due to its relative cultural tolerance. Even in Renaissance times, Florentines laughed at situations for which contemporaries in other cities sent to the stake. It was also the first city to abolish the death penalty in 1786 and penalties for homosexuality in 1853. Even earlier, the de' Medici dynasty, which ruled the city from the 15th to the 18th century, promoting art, culture and tolerance, included among its representatives, members who were certainly homosexuals: Pope Leo III (Giovanni de' Medici), Ferdinand II and Giovanni Gastone de' Medici.
Moreover, as early as the 1400s -'500s, there were “maps” of places in Florence where homosexual encounters could take place. And finally, Italy's first gay club was opened here, near Piazza Signoria.
Today in Florence, the LGBTQI+ traveler can find valuable support in AITGL - Associazione Italiana del Turismo Gay & Lesbian, a nonprofit association founded in 2009 to make Italy an increasingly welcoming country and provide tourist information, assistance (including legal) and dedicated services.

Among the most gay friendly cities in Italy, Milan, the global fashion center and the financial capital of the country, certainly cannot be missed.

These industries have acted as a real gay magnet for many Italian and non-Italian teens, who now live their lives proudly and in the sunlight: here, loving gestures such as holding hands or kissing have become routinely.

Let's go back to the south and head to Naples, which is one of the landmark cities for the southern LGBTQI+ community today but also in the past.The respect and affection Neapolitans feel for queer people has ancient origins and is reflected in a much-loved figure in local folklore, the so-called femminiello, a word for a man with feminine features and attitudes.

According to tradition, the femminiello is an important element in the social structure and is a lucky bearer, which is why he is very requested during the ritual of the Christmas tombola, to call out the numbers-which he often enunciates in a mocking and somewhat foul-mouthed manner following the traditional smorfia and setting up a real show.

He is also the protagonist of ancient rituals, such as the figliata dei femminielli - a propitiatory rite during which a childbirth is simulated, with grimacing and wailing in labor, accompanied by singing and litanies - and the juta dei femminielli - annual pilgrimage of groups belonging, in particular, to the trans community to the shrine of Montevergine on February 2 to honor the Virgin Mary, which ends with singing and dancing.

Regarding nightlife, Naples boasts numerous gay friendly venues, from bars to discos, especially in the old city center and particularly in Piazza Bellini, near the music conservatory, a very lively area of aggregation and sociability, frequented by students, young people, tourists members of the community and others.
Finally, we recommend not to miss the Naples Pride, again in the old town and generally with a finish line in the promenade area, where the typical Neapolitan festive atmosphere takes on an even more vibrant and heartfelt tone.

A happy island in the Veneto region of Italy, Padua is certainly an open and avant-garde city, but above all it is inclusive, much more so than others in the region, and it features numerous venues for the LGBTQI+ world.

Gay tourism in the City of Aperitifs does not have as old roots as elsewhere, but it is certainly a place that is experiencing a rapid rise of it in recent years, as even Venice itself does not offer many specific options in this regard. Yet even here there is a great deal of activity by local associations, primarily by Tralaltro, the provincial Arcigay committee.

But what is possible to do in Padua? Definitely drop by the Padua Pride Village, the largest context in northern Italy, which, as in cities such as Rome and Torre del Lago, presents itself as the centerpiece of the rainbow summer.

The Village, founded in 2008 by PD deputy Alessandro Zan (promoter of the bill of the same name against homophobia, misogyny and ableism) and offers events, parties, entertainment in clubs, venues, discos for those who want to spend crazy and fun nights among music, dancing and cocktails. Even in the city center bars and clubs allow for relaxing social settings, while clubs await you if you prefer more lively settings-especially if you like 80s music.

Padua also offers gay saunas and spas, for those who prefer quieter and more peaceful settings, perhaps together with their loved one. In short, Padua is currently among the gayest cities in Italy and offers tourist options for all tastes.

Located in the heart of Versilia, just a few kilometers from Viareggio, Torre del Lago is not simply among the most gay-friendly cities in Italy but one of the LGBTQI+ community's most beloved summer destinations for at least sixty years.

Home to the Puccini Opera Festival, Torre del Lago has always had a great fascination for lovers of this musical genre and in particular for groups of homosexuals who, moreover, found quieter and less chaotic contexts here than in other seaside resorts and took advantage of it to vacation in peace.

A real growth in gay tourism took place in the 1960s, which focused on the Leccioni beach, commonly known as “the dunes,” which offered an intimate and private place for couples, friends, and why not, even nudists. The campsites also facilitated privacy and contact with nature, away from the prying eyes of conformists, especially for younger people who could not afford hotels.

In the late 1990s, the Friendly Versilia was also established to boost rainbow tourism and draw up a guide on recommended places to go; famous nightclubs opened with dedicated events, such as the world-famous Mama Mia, which is still an important landmark; drag queen shows were organized; and, above all, the Mardi Gras, one of the most famous and popular gay pride events in Italy, which has been held generally in August since 2015. Finally, the first gay beach club was established thanks to the Mama Mia, the Mama Beach, and began its activity in 2003.

Today, Torre del Lago is a must-see destination for those seeking a relaxed and inclusive climate during their summer vacation, for those who want to enjoy the sea and the close contact with nature - much more intense than in more well-known and frequented places - but also for those who want to get to know a place so significant for the community's history up close. And, of course, for those who want to party in the many clubs, venues and discos by participating in parties and events that can hardly be found in other cities.

Let's go all the way down to Apulia and focus on Gallipoli, one of the most popular and popular vacation destinations for young people. But not many people know that in recent years this beautiful location in Salento has also become an important goal for gay tourism in Italy. The reason is primarily due to the presence of numerous gay friendly beaches, where the is possible to live the perfect Apulian holiday mood, between fun, relaxation and gathering.

The welcoming and open-mindedness is also reflected in the presence of numerous beaches dedicated to naturists, among which the most famous is certainly Punta della Suina, or also Spiaggia degli Innamorati, which became even more famous because it is the setting for Ferzan Ozpetek's film Loose Cannons.

When the sun goes down, Gallipoli also offers plenty of options for a fun and lively nightlife: clubs, bars and discos with LGBTQI+ nights, drag queen shows, DJ sets and more will keep you awake until the morning!

If, on the other hand, you are looking for quieter settings and want to try the local cuisine, know that there are even queer masserias, places where Apulian tradition is dressed in a thousand colors; here you can enjoy local delicacies, make friends and sip drinks while listening to good music and relaxing by the pool: a getaway with a kick.

Tuscany again, another historic stop for the Italian rainbow community: let's move to Pisa. Here, in 1979, the first expression of Italian gay pride ended, a sort of forerunner of the one we know today, with a symbolic and touching roundabout around the Leaning Tower, riding on the wave of an emancipatory spirit that echoed the Stonewall Riots.

The choice of Pisa is most purposeful, since, like other Tuscan locations we have reviewed, it represented a largely homosexual-friendly place, which in Piazza dei Miracoli and Piazza dei Cavalieri (home of La Normale University) found places to gather and socialize. Reasoning on an ideal tour of this essential destination for gay tourism in Italy, we continue to Vicolo dei Tinti, where the headquarters of Circolo Orfeo was located, one of the first national associations for the protection of LGBTQI+ people and which was responsible for the organization of the '79 event but also for many other initiatives in the cultural and artistic sphere.